1. Read your Patriarchal blessing, study it, and pray to know who you are and accept it. Discover what your spiritual gifts are.
2. Help your children and your spouse discover who they are and their spiritual gifts.
3. Fall in love with each of your children individually. Make each child feel like they are your favorite. Each day for each child say to them... "I love watching you _____________."
4. Pray for confirmation that Heavenly Father know you and you are his child.
5. Read "Helping Children Develop Feelings of Self Worth."