Answer from Sister Tanner: That is a good question. It can be hard to have marriage time and still be able to go to bed "early". You have to focus on the principle and not on the exact hour. It would be very important to set aside time to be with your husband. The most important thing is to sit down with him and help him see that you want to make some changes in what you are trying to do. Ask him to help you make it happen and then with his support, work out a system that will work in your home. If you express both your desire to have time with him, and your desire to go to bed early so you can get up early and then ask his help, you will be able to find an answer that will work for both of you.